Here is where it all began. My single mother always wanted the best for me, so she put me in a Catholic school. But it was not the best environment. The classrooms were quiet, and I could not be creative. I was talkative, bored, and disengaged. The teachers and nuns did not know what to do with my sanguine-choleric personality, labeled me, and did not give me the support I needed because they did not understand my makeup. My behavior overshadowed my intelligence. During that time, teachers did not know what EFS were or how to support students who struggled. Teachers had one way of teaching and thinking. I struggled to sit quietly all day, to keep up, and focus. I failed and felt like a failure. Thankfully, everything turned around for me when I left that environment. My grades improved; I made the honor roll every semester and graduated with honors.
I remember this day like yesterday. It was Teacher Appreciation Day 2010, and my kindergarten class made it special. My students and parents loved me because I was the teacher I always wanted. Over time, I started seeing concerns in my students and children that I couldn't grasp. I later learned that they exhibited executive function (EF) challenges. I had no idea what EF was or meant. I consciously tried to learn all I could on the topic and educated my children's teachers as best I could with my little knowledge. This sparked my endless quest into the mysteries that consume millions of classrooms and homes.
I champion all students who struggle with EF issues and want them to win. As a parent, teacher, and someone who still has some EF issues, bringing awareness and educating other teachers and parents on these overlooked and undertaught skills are critical. As a master educator and educational consultant, I have extensively researched this subject. Students should not have to struggle in school because their teachers are ill-equipped. With the vast knowledge, value, and passion that I have in helping all stakeholders learn about Executive Function (EF) and how it can negatively impact our children if not taught, I believe that teachers should be equipped with the tools and strategies to effectively integrate EF skills into their curriculum, ensuring that every child has the support they need to succeed both academically and personally.
Likewise, parents are equally responsible for helping to develop their children's EFS, and I am here to help.
I was the little girl with the big dreams and determined to make them happen!
I am a native Washingtonian and a proud District of Columbia Public Schools graduate, where I graduated in the top 10 percent of my class. Not too bad for a girl who struggled with EF issues. My transition from Catholic school to public school was life-changing. My middle school English teacher Mrs. Jones was instrumental in my academic success and character development.
Since the age of 9 years old, I've always wanted to be a singer and a dentist. I am a singer, but there was a detour on my road to dental school. Beforehand, I pursued my dream of becoming a dentist in undergraduate school at Virginia State University and Howard University, where I earned a B.S. in Biology.
After graduating from Howard University, I taught biology and science in the District of Columbia Public Schools. I loved teaching beyond my imagination and later learned that teaching was my spiritual gift, and it came so naturally. While teaching high school biology, I realized many students struggled with reading. The realization was that these students would soon be entering the real world without the ability to read. This experience sparked my desire to make a difference. A few years later, I became an elementary reading teacher; the rest is history!
Teaching in some of the most underserved schools and teaching English Language Learners to read was an honor. My commitment to teaching struggling readers gave me a different scene of purpose.
I was recognized for my outstanding achievement in growing reading scores in all my schools.
I was a Teacher Leader and mentored novice teachers in the New Teacher Academy.
My love for teaching and learning extended into my personal goals. Overcoming my own executive function challenges, I earned a 4.0 GPA upon completing my Master's in Education with a focus on Global Training and Development from Northcentral University. I then launched my educational consulting business, Wendy Gray Educational Consulting, LLC.
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